Author: Michael Hopkins
How often do you find yourself offended? A thought to ponder as we dive into today's topic. Consider a time when you've spoken words and later wondered, did that come out wrong? I hope they didn't take that the wrong way. We've all been there, haven't we? The truth is, we all have the potential to offend and be offended. Take, for example, the scripture from Romans 8, 28. All things work together for the good of those who love God. To some, this serves as a comforting reminder that both the good and the bad experiences in life serve a greater purpose. However, another person might interpret this differently, feeling as though it insinuates they don't love God enough, hence why things are not aligning in their life. The Bible in Luke 7.23 states, Blessed is the one who is not offended by me. But how can we become less prone to offense? The answer lies in positivity. Aim to view every statement, every action, every situation from a positive perspective. Believe that it is intended for your good. Negativity only fuels more negative thoughts which can spiral into feelings of sadness and depression. But by maintaining a positive, upbeat attitude, you foster a space for joy. Remember Proverbs 17.22 which tells us, A merry heart does good like a medicine. Indeed, a joyful heart and a positive outlook can be the best defense against offense. In summary, it's natural for us to get offended, but it's crucial to remember that offense is often rooted in our interpretation. By keeping a positive mindset and seeing things from a perspective of love and goodwill, we can reduce the likelihood of feeling offended. Offense is a choice. Choose positivity, choose joy and choose to see the good in every situation. Because a life lived without unnecessary offense is a life lived with a merry heart.
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